Dear friends and family,
Today, one of our hosts, Maryann, went down to the River Center. It’s the largest refugee shelter in Baton Rouge. It started taking evacuees early on and the numbers seem to keep on increasing. There are around 5000 people there now, making it very crowded.
Maryann had gone there a couple of days ago to offer to bring some people back here to use our showers and have the chance to relax for a little while and get cleaned up. She connected with a woman and her four grandchildren and although they couldn’t do it that day, Maryann arranged to pick them up today. So off she went in the morning. She was going to take them to a McDonald’s for some lunch, then bring them here, but after a few hours she still hadn’t returned. We finally got a call from her (on the perpetually degrading phone system) saying she was standing in a line outside the River Center still waiting to get inside.
Evidently the security has been ratcheted up quite considerably in the past few days. When Maryann was there on Wednesday there were fewer people being housed there and she had just been able to walk in the door and talk with people. Today, there was a highly visible military presence. She said where she was standing there were a couple of guards, one with his rifle slung over his shoulder, the other with it ready in his hands.
The overcrowding, the tension, the lack of privacy, the lack of security for the few belongings people still possess, the unsettling rumour mill, the fears of unrest after FEMA’s debit card fiasco (did you hear about that one? the emergency agency gave away $2000 debit cards on a “trial basis” to refugees at the Astrodome while those in other shelters waited; then the program was scrapped after the first ones were given out). All these things have led to increased security.
When people leave the River Center to get a breath of fresh air or, conversely, to have a smoke, they have to sign out with those in charge. Then, to get back in again, they have to queue up, in the same line Maryann found herself in. That means just to go out and have a stretch may take several hours. And the queueing up is all done in the 94F degree heat, with the smokers smoking as much as they can in the line before they get back inside to the no-smoking zone. Meanwhile, you have to make sure you leave someone looking after your stuff inside or it may disappear. So, you leave someone waiting rooted to your little bit of space inside while you take hours to get back in.
Maryann talked to quite a few people there. One older woman was sitting in the shade. She told Maryann she really wanted to get back inside, but she had bad knees and so she was trying to rest up before she got on that long line, hoping it might grow a bit shorter in the meantime. Maryann said she’d get in line on the woman’s behalf and then get her in when she reached the head of the queue. And that’s what she did.
In the queue, one of the women behind her, when she realised Maryann lived in town, started begging her for any accommodation at all that she knew of. She was saying “I just need a small place to be by myself. I’ll clean house. I’m a good worker, I’m honest, I have references. I just need a little space.” Maryann pointed out a woman standing away from the queue, who had told her earlier she had a boarding house and was taking names of people for the rooms, and that she might be able to help. But the woman was too scared to give up her place in the queue to go over to the boarding house woman. She’d already waited for hours, and the woman was already taking other people’s names, so even if she left the queue she might not get a room. It was heartbreaking.
When Maryann finally got inside, although she’d had the woman she was to meet paged, she couldn’t find her anyway. After hours, she gave up and came home.
And that’s what it’s like in the River Center. Many of the people there spent days in intolerable conditions in New Orleans after Katrina hit, so you could say it’s an improvement.
I spent the day researching an article for the Herald on using the Internet for disaster relief. I find it really hard to concentrate on my usual writing about computers, so one of my editors has come up with this story, which is central to my thinking.
Lillie had a really tough day. Now that we are sure we’re moving to Houston, and moving soon, she’s faced with separation from the rest of her family. She had hoped to see her dad before we leave Baton Rouge, but he’s currently on the road to Atlanta with Lillie’s sister Laurie, going there to pick up his wife, so the chances of seeing him any time soon are slim. Jane’s in northern Louisiana, staying at a camp (local word for a cabin in the woods or on a bayou) near Tallulah. Lillie will make the trip up there tomorrow to see her. I can’t take the time to go with her, as I have to try to earn some money and need to help out at the newly reestablished Death Penalty Discourse Center here, before I abandon them for Texas (I’ll still do the online management for the Center from Texas, but I won’t be on hand to do computer training and troubleshooting). Ann and Glenn are still camped with their son, Stephen, here in Baton Rouge. It’s quite a sight, seeing Ann, Glenn and Lisa all piled into a household with Stephen and his two flatmates and assorted girlfriends. We’re hoping to have time with them on Monday before we leave.
It’s going to be such an enormous wrench for Lillie. Right at the time she needs to be near them most, she’s going to have to leave her family. We’re already really missing our friends, so this is going to be extraordinarily hard.
One thing people who haven’t spent time in the South might not realise is how important family is. I think this may be even more the case in New Orleans than for other places in the South. Families stick together. Lillie’s family all live within a few miles of one another and she and her three sisters have always talked on the phone almost every day. They all adore their dad. And the connection is not just immediate family: they have really strong ties to a very extended network of aunts, uncles and cousins.
This is the usual way of things in New Orleans. We were talking to a couple at the refugee gathering last week, and they have family dinner every single Sunday with 60 people in their home. There families have lived in Louisiana since the 1700s (they’re African American), and being separated is beyond comprehension.
That’s one of the great tragedies of this disaster which may not be visible to those from outside this culture. It has wrenched these closely-knit families apart, flinging them off in all directions.
With hundreds of thousands of people being forced to do what they don’t want to do – leave their families and friends, accept unpalatable work, live in places not of their choosing – I think the depression factor down the road is going to be enormous. Lillie was certainly feeling it today.
Love,
Rose
